[Updated] Ryan Rose Splits With Boyfriend Ethan Slade: “It’s What’s Best”

Ryan Rose confirmed today that he’s no longer with boyfriend Ethan Slade.

The two have been together, despite a hiatus last year, for over a year and a half, following Rose’s tumultuous (and violent) relationship with Bobby Hart.

Slade made a brief foray into porn two years ago in NakedSword’s Undiscovered, but hasn’t done much since.

Then he and Ryan appeared at Folsom Street Fair together in 2013 looking like this:

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Anyway, Ryan is back answering fan questions on Ask.fm today, and he confirms the news that he’s now single again.

UPDATE: Ryan has posted a public apology to Ethan, and sounds like he wants him back now.

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37 thoughts on “[Updated] Ryan Rose Splits With Boyfriend Ethan Slade: “It’s What’s Best””

  1. bring dwn the lights, strike up the band n cue the violins….it is challenging enough attempting a monogamous relationship in the homo community considering homo human nature n men are dogs stereotype……takes a certain type to earn your living as a sex worker…….the other primary factors that is overlooked….attempting to build on great sexual chemistry….sexual chemistry and in lust vs. in-love….they are over each other in a matter of hours…..but i am all for keeping hope alive….

  2. @Andrew: There is nothing self-righteous about my conclusions but I see that you like to personally attack people. When you post here and the other place I see you post you do that alot. Fine, Im not going to stoop to your level and leave it at that. But what in the world does RR being a Marine have anything to do with anything? You throw his service around like that sets him apart somehow. He was a big muscular Marine when he beat his former bf. He was a big muscular marine when he threatened to beat up Ricky Larkin. He was a big muscular marine when he threatened to beat up Nick Capra. He was a big muscular marine when he threatened to beat up Brandon from SC. He was a big muscular marine when he threatened to beat up another person on ask.fm who asked him why with all of his money he didnt get his teeth fixed. I could go on but Im sure you get the point. Whats the bridge between a threat and action – space and opportunity. None of those people were close to him. Its clear that youre a cheerleader and a die hard for him, hey I get it, its hard to think about having to honor your word if and when your masturbation material goes haywire and forces you to stop watching his videos but like I said, you want to watch him go ahead I just dont want to support someone like that. But were two different people and our morals are just different. But when you admit that you beat someone, still threaten people, profess to being quick tempered hothead, youre manipulative, jealous, moody, and the list goes on I gotta say no thanks, but again you keep the faith.

  3. @Andrew. No I dont read all of your posts just the ones on here and another blog. They stick out to me because they seem to always be about Ryan Rose thats all. His fight with Bobbi Hart is not private at all. Domestic violence is a crime and offends all of us who think that its wrong. I have every right as a citizen to comment on it because it is sick behavior. Good if you condemned the behavior and good if you think he should grow up but I just dont believe in giving someone such much hoopla until they change. They never will if they know that they can mess up, apologize, get a good talking to from the public, and then continue on their way. Until I see the change in how he talks to people on twitter he gets none of that from me and verbal abuse is a form of domestic violence. In fact, like my professor told me it is the form of violence that often comes before hitting or the other forms of violence. When you threaten to beat someone like he did with Brandon from SC then thats more than being in a cat fight. Thats a threat that Im certain he would carry out because he has before. Im willing to forgive and forget after I see change but until then I will continue to bring that up because how he acted then and now come from the same place.

    1. Feel free to go on listening to your professor. I’ll go on enjoying Ryan’s porn performances. Should he turn out to be a serial abuser, I will reluctantly stop being a Ryan fan.

      1. Its the reluctant part that makes me smh. If he did it again you should be the first one to walk away but even though someone would be hurt it would be hard for you to do that? You can go ahead and watch his scenes never said not to. Im just different than you when it comes to things like that. I forgive and forget when I see real change not just a change in the way a person does business. Dont tell me youre not violent then talk about hurting someone on twitter. Physical or verbal is all the same to me. I still think its fine for anyone and everyone to drag him for his past abuse especially since he has not changed. I know that hes been abusive since the event and it may not be physical (that we know of) but that doesnt mean theres been a change. Ill continue to listen to my professor, he has stats and evidence to justify his position and you have hope that he wont do it again. Be good with that.

        1. Your professor’s statistics tell us nothing about whether a specific individual, who has committed domestic abuse is going to do it again. As Churchill said: “There are lies, damn lies and statistics”. I will continue to give Ryan the benefit of the doubt. You can continue to doubt him.

          1. Of course statistics dont do that. Any one that believes that would be stupid. Statistics predict behavior in general theyre not Gods they dont say what each person will definitely do. The reason why I take stats over your hoping and wishing is that stats gives us information that point to a pattern that we can trust. Ok Churchill may have said that there were lies, damned lies, and statistics even though he’s not author of that quote. But whenever someone starts in on how much they doubt stats my professor quotes Professor Wolfinger that the plural of anecdote is data. That means that the stats I rely on are based on all of the instances where people had done that very thing. The higher the stat the better its going to be in predicting what the majority of people will do. Problem for you is that you believe that domestic violence is just hitting someone. Weve moved on from that thinking decades ago. Especially after reading what he said in that letter about what he did to drive his bf away this time Im going to keep on doubting and you can go ahead and keep the faith.

          2. To ANON: I will continue to give Ryan the benefit of the doubt. You can continue to pass your self righteous judgments. I believe, that although Ryan is admittedly a bit of a macho hot head, he knows his weaknesses and has learned from the beating he gave Bobby Hart. Ryan is a big muscular former Marine, who in the service of his country was taught to fight and even kill. I think he knows how important it is for him not to get into fights with others, especially those less skilled in physical combat.

  4. jordi lima lama

    When i say ryan roshe is a protective bf i mean bcoz doesnt everbidy hurt and beat up their livers ? Everyone deserves a second..third …multiple chances not to become a human piñata

    1. I don’t think 2nd, 3rd or multiple chances have been needed. That awful fight with his boyfriend happened once. But you and some other porn fans seem to enjoy bringing it up again and again. I guess it helps some porn lovers feel morally superior to the guys who act in porn.

      1. Do you say the same for all men who beat their significant others or is it just because he’s “famous”. If a man beat up your mom, sister, daughter, etc, would you let him forget it? What if he were famous. You’re a fan and thats cool. But shit like that follows you especially if your famous. Some shit you shouldn’t forget.

        1. Two young guys fighting after a night out at a bar is a whole lot different than a man beating up a woman. I am not suggesting that people should forget bad things that others do, but since it happened only once and he isn’t a repeat offender, it is not necessary to continually post about it. I doubt that you would want a sin/crime that you committed to be constantly brought up as if it defines you as a man. I know I wouldn’t.

          1. Its not fair to try to reduce what happened to Bobby Hart to “two guys fighting outside a bar”. Ryan Rose beat him down and we have only his word that it “might” have been them fighting each other. Domestic violence is domestic violence no matter the context and its really wrong when people try to make it seem less serious because of the victims gender. The reason why people continue to post about it is because while Ryan Rose may not have hit someone else that we know of he still continues to be abusive. My professor taught me that domestic violence can be sexual, physical, psychological, verbal or physical. When I see him on twitter he is quick to fight with people and when he does he goes from zero to 60 in one word flat using really abusive language. That is not change it just means that he has not hit someone…yet. There were so many people who already wanted to “forget” it and forgive right after he did it and gave some apology that was really about him “I am a pos”, I hurt the person I love. No, he escaped going to jail, his punishment is having to own and remember that incident for the rest of his life and he aint doing too bad cause he just won several more awards, got an exclusive with Falcon videos, was bought a rolex watch, and still has you telling everyone on every board where his name appears how much you love and adore him. Most guys in his position dont get that so clearly T and everyone else bringing it up aint hurt him one bit.

          2. TO ANON: Since you seem to read all of my posts, you must have seen my strong condemnation of Ryan right after the beating he gave Bobby Hart. What the final outcome of that was is between Bobby and Ryan and the law enforcement authorities. Since he isn’t a repeat offender, we should move on and not continue to beat him up with it. You also likely have seen my criticisms of Ryan’s nasty cat fights on Twitter. I suggested that he would be a better man, if he would act more mature and manly on Twitter and get his Twitter behavior to match his manly appearance. As much as you and I don’t like his nasty comments on Twitter, they in no way indicate that he is going to physically beat someone up again.

      1. So it’s a lame attempt to mimic the empty headed Jordi Lim. The opinion should still be challenged.

  5. And this is significant because…? Why do you all speak like you personally know these people and that you have something invested? Surely some of you must have relationships in your own lives that you have to work on.

    1. And here you are commenting just as we all have. Its entertainment. They put their lives out here, if they or YOU dont like it then thats YOUR problem and theirs.

      1. It just reeks “stalker”. But you’re right. It is entertainment. As long as you aren’t harassing these people and you aren’t a convicted sex offender, it’s OK (although a bit pathetic).

          1. “Nah, stalking is seeking out this info.” No, that’s research! ;)

            Besides, stalking involves a whole lot more than seeking out info. It’s at the obsessive level, so it involves things such as physically following their every move.

    2. Personally speaking, my own life is a little richer and more fun because I am a fan of certain athletes, actors, politicians, rock groups and porn stars.

  6. I like Ryan Rosehe is a loving and very protective bf. Everyone deserves a second chance. He is a proud gay man unlike others indenial. Hope you find the right guy.

    1. When you put the laundry on the front yard, people are free to comment on it. If you are going to Lohan your life in public view, then editorial observation is a given.

  7. two of em are bisexuals, bi guys are usually hard to have long term relationship. especially for ryan, he always used to say gay but now he doesnt want to be labeled anymore. bi guys always say the thing like that.

  8. Hmm…another boyfriend down the tubes. Maybe RR should be smart (conceal huge guffaw here) & avoid dating while he is in the porn model & whore businesses…in fact, that is good advice for any guy in either of those businesses. Deep down, do any of these guys real think the person they are supposedly dating wants the sloppy seconds of a scene partner or a client? Spare me the whole “they deserve to have a private life & someone to love” bit. These guys are in a narcissistic business, and anyone they are supposedly involved with will always be an afterthought….you can have the money & jet set lifestyle, or you can have the love…but you ain’t having both, Blanche.

    1. I agree, even if both are in the industry, they each spend more time with and fucking other people, that their private relationships take a hit. I wonder how many of them would give up porn for their private life.

      1. Sadly, T, the answer is most likely a SMALL minority. Getting 2K for a weekend of fucking and all they really have to do is look pretty and be a good lay becomes addictive. Why work a regular job when you can do a client for each of the four weekends & make 8K TAX FREE. They are totally free to monetize their asset…but they should avoid complaining about a personal life. If they choose that path, then they need to accept the bad with the good. If an escort wants to have a non-monetary romantic relationship with you, pull a Flo-Jo & go the other way. If you don’t, you will regret it.

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