Gay4$ for days. Fucking women on gay porn sites. There’s one reason for the kind of porn we’re seeing this summer. And that reason is in the mirror.
It’s a very unsettled world out there now right now. And it’s permeated right down to the intersection of Piledriver Drive and Rim Job Road.
We shouldn’t be so surprised. We’ve been along for the ride.
And that’s the problem. But this is one destination we can do something about.
The topic of the week is Men.com’s bisexual scene where MMF goes full frontal with Arad Winwin, Daxx Carter, and Sylvia Saige. Not surprisingly, the general reaction here can be generalized into three letters, WTF?.
[Watch Daxx, Arad, and Sylvia in “the Challenge” August 1st at Men.com]
As gay men, we know what we want to get off to and especially at a site called Men.com, we expected to find it. Certainly, no one bought a membership in the hopes one day they would produce a str8 or bi scene.
It was in 2016 that Men.com rolled out the trumpets and with much fanfare, released their 2000th scene.
[Watch Men.com’s 2000th Episode Video ]
Last year, no such milestone. Rather there was the release of “Right In Front Of My Salad?” which went viral and spawned an unfortunate follow up.
Today is two years to the day of Men.com’s 2000th scene, Timing is everything, eh? And we already know what was released today.
The fact “The Challenge” is the lowest rated of all Men’s 2728 episodes comes as no shock here. And probably for Men either. They knew what they were doing. This scene quite possibly was never intended to cater to their members, it was a big stunt in the hopes would it would get them more.
But “The Challenge” is a salad no one wants to toss – except to toss it out. Men’s attempt to create another viral sensation has laid nothing but an egg.
[Daxx, Nathan, & Gunner in “Sexcapes”]
Daxx Carter has the unique position of also being in another scene released today, “Sexcape” at NextDoorRaw with Gunner and Nathan Styles.It’s already spawned a dozen plus negative comments in their member’s sections but the scene sucks — and with no females in sight.
Of course, the cancellation button is the surest way to get the studios’ attention. But unless it’s done en masse, it’s not going to be effective. With Men and NextDoor updating daily across their networks, the average consumer can find something in the week’s offerings to get off to and once dutifully orgasmed, the game resets itself for next week.
Just anything you purchase, gay porn should be worth value and do what you need it to do. Otherwise, you would not have purchased a membership to begin with. That doesn’t mean, however, you have to sit back and take less or not what you paid for.
Tired of Gay4$ models that are wooded everywhere but their dicks. Had enough or boring “blowjob, rimjob, position one, position two” scenes? Or blurry cumshots? Or bad lighting? Or stupid plots? Let the studios know. Email them. Be specific. Call ’em out. We’ll never get the porn we want, how we want it, unless we demand it.
In the “Golden Age of Online Gay Porn,” most gay sites were gay owned and operated. The advent of free porn forced many of those companies out of business. The survivors were by and large acquired by straight companies. And therein lies the rub.
But no porn company, gay or straight, is a non-profit operation. It’s a small number of paying members that keep sites alive for everyone. Canceling a membership may have a marginal effect. But the real way to make an impact is to buy a membership to a site you enjoy, giving companies some breathing room to put that money back into what you want, not just what’s fast and cheap.
This is a gay porn blog. I see my job like that of a waiter who points you in the direction of the best dishes in the hopes you will like them — and come back when you are hungry again. Some days that is a tougher task than others while always remembering that it’s not about my orgasm, it’s about yours.
No, I am not taking a page out of you know who’s trickle down tax plan. The public will let him know exactly what they think this November. Letting studios know about what you want and who you want to see doing doesn’t only has to wait until you hit the buy button or click on the contact me link and let them know.
And better yet, support your local gunfighter.
Drops mic.
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Men.com chose not to integrate bareback so they created a separate website BROMO for that. Why didn’t they do the same here? Is is because there really isn’t a great market for MMF bi scenes? At the very least, use bi models, don’t force pussy on gay guys. It is insulting. If the producers of that website were gay or actually cared about us, they would know this!
As a gay man myself, I’m sad to see the hatred/distrust in the community towards bisexual people. I can understand the disgust toward g4p, because I myself can only tolerate them as long as they are not openly homophobic (although I suspect there are a lot of bi closet cases) and because we gay man have very few spaces that are truly ours.
But the comments I’ve been reading about this scene have too much hatred, even mysogyny in some cases.
We can do better. We should do better.
PD: As for the soft dicks while bottoming, it’s something that also happens to my, and i’m really gay. In my case is just physiology, I don’t know why it happens. That doesn’t mean the bottom is straight.
You’re not disgusted by promotion of conversion therapy, bisexuals invading spaces and bisexuals lying about being gay?
Nothing straight in GAY porn. PERIOD!
Bi I can take, provided the woman doesn’t do the usual “having an orgasm as soon as she’s penetrated” and the guys are really interacting with each other. Poor Arad was the only one worth watching in the scene; no wonder he made his escape at the end.
Personally, I feel pretty disappointed by the response from gay men over the past few days. I understand being angry over the scene’s low quality. And I could see being annoyed if the video wasn’t clearly tagged as bi, or if the thumbnail was a closeup on the chicks vagina or something. But it’s really not hard to avoid seeing the naked woman if you don’t want to. And gay men aren’t the only ones watching gay porn; bi men exist (not to mention the women that make up a third of gay porn viewership)! Being pissed off just because the site produced one or two videos that are aimed at a different part of its audience is just ridiculous. And kind of offensive. Bi guys already often feel excluded by the overall gay community, and shit like this just makes it more apparent that we’re not welcome.
Bi guys first should stop leeching from gay men and stop pretending they’re gay like Arad. that’s really offensive.
I’m just over Gay spaces being invaded and having these other niches/demographics being forced on us. I support every letter within LGBTQAIP community, but at the end of the day I am a GAY man. Vagina and Tits do not turn me on, I like Dick, Ass, muscles, chest hair, preferably rubbing against, in and on top of each other.
So as a gay man, why should my spaces for my demographic be marginalized ? Why is this not being pressed on the straight side of things? Ive yet to see another game finger an ass, suck a dick, or fuck a trans in straight porn? Yet no one see any problems with it constantly being pressed upon Gays? Why not create them their own site to flourish and receive attention they crave and want, why push their agenda on Gays that dont want or asked for it ?
The problem is that no one is imposing anything on you or other gay men. If you don’t want to watch this scene, then don’t. It’s clearly marked as bisexual, and clearly has a woman’s face in the thumbnail. Yes, gay men are the majority of the gay porn audience, but they’re not the totality, and they shouldn’t see a video here or there being produced for the bisexuals and women in the audience as some sort of assault on their own sexuality.
Also, you can easily find straight porn videos where guys get fingered, rimmed, and even pegged by women. And a few primarily straight sites even include trans performers. And besides, the comparison to straight porn breaks down even more when you consider that straight guys don’t generally have any interest in seeing other naked guys, and yet they can be guaranteed an eyeful of man ass and dick in almost every straight porn video they watch.
Stop. If you have the energy, go protest on STRAIGHT sites to include man-on-man scene instead of further marginalizing an already marginalized community. Your propaganda is showing. Also men.com used a GAY man who fled from Iran because of homosexuality in this scene. This is very insulting and akin to conversion therapy. There are a lot of REAL gay people who wants to escape from those countries but their spot was taken by this fool. So shove your western privilege back to your ass and be quiet.
Yup, the one guy speaking up for a portion of the LG’B’T that is almost entirely overlooked is definitely doing the marginalizing. And conversion therapy? Let’s not be dramatic. I highly doubt Arad was forced to do this scene — he did it for the money (who knows, he might have even been paid more because it was with a girl). This porn video has absolutely nothing to do with the fight for gay rights on the other side of the world. Get a fucking grip.
Fuck you. Why don’t you preach to straight porns to include two men fucking? You won’t because you are a pathetic hypocrite that only dares to shit on gay men. Go worship straigt people and leave us alone.
I feel like people are getting upset over nothing. Trust me. Having watched the scene in question I can tell that there is nothing to be upset about it.
Except maybe the lackluster performances of the male leads. They were AWFUL!