Gay porn star Spencer Reed gave his version of events and posted photos of the wound allegedly inflicted by ex-boyfriend Phillip Aubrey (who faces trial on assault charges), and now Aubrey is sharing his side of the story.
In a long, sometimes incoherent, and ultimately disturbing letter sent to The Sword last night, Aubrey speaks at times to Reed himself, while at other times seems to be addressing the former couple’s fans. He alleges that Reed has been abusing him throughout their entire relationship (remember, Reed has said the exact opposite), and describes the recent incident that led to his arrest as a sort of accident–an accident that was the result of a broken dog bowl.
The unedited letter:
i have tried to maintain myself as a gentlemen by not airing out my dirty laundry. what spencer is doing is tacky! i was defending myself. spencer has been on steroids from the first month of us dating back in october 2009. He in turn is a very sweet and loving individual. and i fell and was in love with him. but the rage began a month after moving in with each other. his violent outburst and his need to feel dominant prevailed so many times through out the course of our relationship. and first let me just say that ANYONE who even remotely thinks i am capable of abusing or beating spencer reed has a screw loose. and anyone who knows me, knows that im not that kind of person at all. and for all the ones i call my real friends and trust me i have many, they dont believe this for a minute. mainly because they were the ones i turned to when i had bruises from where he would strangle me against a wall because i thought i could be a dom on kink.com, or punched me in the head because the elastic in his underwear was to tight. or try to throw me in front of a train because i told him he had food on his face. he calls his fans and people on twitter his real friends, the truth is that i lived with him for two years and he doesnt have any true real friends except for one. and he only came over when spencer needed his weed. ive been the victim for too long. and i dont need to come on here and air my laundry out or take pity from anyone because i had respect for him.
i gave it my all. and then one night after things were good for awhile he lost it again and threw a shoe at me in my sleep. and when i tried to get him back in bed from the couch he was unresponsive. so when i got him back into bed he got back out and when i tried to get him back in pulling on his hips his underwear ripped and he lost it. [he] ripped my clothes and proceeded to push me around the apartment and right over the kitchen table that in turn fell and broke my 8 month old puppies food bowl. as i was picking up the pieces i turned around there he was and i pushed him away from me, which then scraped his arm. i had no idea the extent of his injuries, and i picked up my dog and ran to the bathroom to hide. the next thing the cops are there and im being arrested. there was no stabbing, no knife. and definitely no account for little me to be abusing the big bad wolf, who obviously is the one crying wolf and blabbing about it immediately to cover up the black hole that is his sole.
i dont need any ones pity or sympathy because it was me who couldnt walk away from him, who should have the day he knocked me unconscious in san diego at gay pride with blood gushing down the side of my head. as i let him clean the wound in a 7 11 gas station on rosecrans blvd. REMEMBER THAT BABE! this is all a ploy because i dont need to prove myself or sheild myself from my own reality because im a good person with a good soul and a life out side of all of this. i thought id wait till after trial where i will bring all of my evidence and win this thing to get on here and say something in my defense. but dont believe what you see in the tabloids people. its bull shit. im hurt. and quite disgusted with myself and mr reed at this moment. he stripped my apt bare took my dog which belongs to me and left me with rent has gone online in a matter of days talking about how he wants to do this and that to this person and moving to cali. you have fun with that. its obvious who really cares in this situation. and obvious who really has the life and the support from TRUE friends here.
sorry for the aggressiveness in his letter but i would have thought people would be human beings at a time like this. and really all of this just sickens me. talking about how we pornstars dont have real lifes. obviously its not us, definitly not me. i have a career love and a song in my heart and now im fortunate i dont have to wake up and worry about fitting myself into a box or worrying about what to say and not say around someone just to make them happy. or have glasses and furniture thrown around the house because someone cant practice self control. spencer is 240 pounds of steroid muscle im 170 and very in touch with my fem side so PLEASE look at the big picture here. and what i do with my life on any site, film, or daily activity is my own business and no one elses! stay tuned. peace im out.
Phillip Aubrey is set to appear in a Washington D.C. court on September 8th, 2011, where he faces one charge of simple assault and one charge of attempted possession of a prohibited weapon.
Note: Due to the sensitive nature of this story, the upcoming legal proceedings, and some of the hearsay coming from anonymous commenters below, I’ve closed the comments on this post.