Rafael Alencar on Leaving Porn, Fucking Famous Clients, and Breaking His Dick

“Hi, I’m Rafael. Nice to meet you!” he says, as he shakes my hand and then presses it playfully against his enormous uncut cock, which is jutting out of his open pants. “Um, nice to meet you too,” I stammer, trying to appear cool as I start to pre-cum. I’m on the set of The Pack, NakedSword Originals’ forthcoming film about a gang of edgy “sexual performance artists” who indoctrinate a new member into their ranks at the instruction of group leader Rafael Alencar. For the next two hours, I watch as Mr. Pam, the boisterous writer/director of the film, instructs her favorite leading man through a series of set-ups with his co-star Marcus Isaacs — still photos, then cocksucking and fucking in a variety of challenging positions. Rafael appears to be a pro through all of this. He sticks it out and gets the job done, even when things get tense.

Not content — financially or otherwise — to just be one of the most famous porn stars in the world, Raf is also one of the world’s most successful and in-demand escorts, especially since winning Mr. International Escort 2011 at Rentboy’s Hookie Awards. When we meet two weeks later, on a stormy Sunday afternoon at a Starbucks in Hell’s Kitchen, the phone rings all through our interview. But even though he’s losing money by taking the hour off to talk to me, he’s focused on giving a good interview and remains kind, generous, and open throughout.

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Rafael: Sorry I’m late. I live here in Hell’s Kitchen and I met a porn star on the way and he said, “Oh Rafael, do you mind if I take your picture?” He’s called Leo Boy Sweetwood.

Adam: You never met him before?

I’m very bad with names, you know. Here’s his picture. He lives in San Antonio.

RafaelAlencar_right_2You’re not going to meet up with him later? He just wanted to take a picture?

No, never, I never hook up.

With porn stars or –

With nobody. Rentboy keeps me busy full time.

Are you okay with that? Do you miss being able to go after some guy? Or do you have everything you could possibly want?

No I don’t have that attitude to say, I can have whatever I want. I’m a normal guy, like you or anybody. Rentboy just keeps me busy. My phone rings all the time for sex. If I really need sex I just have to pick up my phone and I make money out of it too. I do get calls all the time like people from all over the world coming to New York who say they’re my fans and they want to hook up, and I just don’t answer them.

They want to hook up for free because they like you but they can’t pay.

Yeah, so I say I can’t because I’m working, but we can go for a coffee or a movie. But not sex. But that’s not what they wanted. I can do anything but no sex.

People never take you up on the coffee and movie thing?

No. They go straight for my cock and I have no interest. They know who I am. There was a guy behind you that was looking at me. There’s two other guys behind now they’re looking at me. They know me.

Do you miss not being recognized?

I cannot itch my ass in public because people look at me. I always have to stay in line because people know me here, especially in the gay area where I live. I make sure I’m not walking around in pajamas or something. I never say no for pictures. Every day someone at the gym or on the way to the gym, or on the way to Starbucks, they stop me to take a picture. It would be bad for me to look bad.

How long have you been in the business?

11 years.

You’re considered a legendary porn star, at this point, right?

No! I’m done. I stopped doing movies.

When was that?

I stopped last year but then other studios keep calling me for more movies. I never went to the press to announce I’m retiring like many, many porn stars do and then in two weeks they’re back doing another movie. I just told myself I’m not going to do movies anymore, but one or two companies say “Rafael, please just one more.” And that’s it.

Like NakedSword.

NakedSword, Men.com. others. I did a movie a long time ago, like two years ago, called Hooker Stories, and everybody called me about this movie, “Oh my god that movie you did about hookers was one of the best movies I’ve seen. You and the other guy Christopher Daniels, you two are rock awesome.” I didn’t do other movies for NakedSword because they’re in San Francisco. I do more local things. But then like last week mr. Pam came here for the Black Party and the Hookies and we decided to do a movie, and so it was great to see Pam and the team. She’s awesome to work with.

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Why did you decide to stop doing porn?

I get emails to do movies almost once a week. For me to do a movie, I refuse ten invitations and I accept one. Mostly I wanna — I always want to keep the high quality. Many low-budget studios and private movies, like or people who just have their wish to do a movie for me, they said they’d pay my fee and do a movie with me. I always say no, most of them. I don’t want you to see me in a bad website. I say no, because I make my money another way. I stopped doing movies because I think I want to stop. It’s not official. I have another movie. I’m going to Ireland on Friday to do a movie. A regular movie. Not a porn movie.

So you’re going to be acting?

Yeah. I’m doing acting. And there is another movie here in two weeks in New York.

rafael_mrpam_leftHow did you first get into escorting? Did it happen before or after porn?

Rentboy came after. I was doing movies for Kristen Bjorn over ten years ago, and then I did — the first movie here was for Falcon Studios in San Francisco. That was my first movie in the United States. And then I signed a contract for a studio that doesn’t exist anymore called Studio 2000, for twinks. It closed since. So the owner for that studio asked me if I do escort. And I said, what’s that? He said you make money, I’m gonna be famous, there are fans who will watch the movie and they’ll try to get ahold of me, and the only way to do it is through being an escort and you should charge for that. He said that’s what all the other porn star does, and anyone that doesn’t do it, I’m sorry for them because they’re not making money. So I decided to do it and it was the best thing that I did it.

Can I ask how much you take in on a given day? What does a typical day look like?

Numbers, you want numbers?

If you’re willing to talk about it.

I can make as much as I want. I’m talking to you, the phone is ringing, I’m losing money. But I’m doing an interview so that’s okay. Fortunately this isn’t the only thing in my life. I travel, I’m overseas for fun. I sleep a lot. I sleep over ten hours a day. I have breakfast, lunch, dinner. I have a regular life so I only do escorting when the time works for me. If you say 8PM and I’m free, I’ll do that. So I can do two a day, three sometimes, sometimes one, sometimes when I’m greedy I do five, six, seven. It depends but I make money from it.

Are you putting money away or are you spending it as it comes in?

I just got a three bedroom apartment right across the street here and I’m just remodeling it now. I don’t have a drug addiction. I’m not drug addicted as you can see. I’m not into Gucci or Versace. They are my clients but I – I fuck them but I don’t buy their products. You know who’s call I just missed now? I’m gonna show you.

(Shows me a missed call on his phone from a world famous fashion designer)

You see? So I’m saving my money. I buy an apartment. I have properties in Brazil and another property in Germany.

Do you get hired by Hollywood actors?

All the famous actors and singers that you have in mind and you suppose that they are gay or are a little bit half and half, they hire me. And they hire other porn stars and escorts too. But it’s a very easy thing to understand. I’m not gonna say one name at all, but if you know one famous actor you have in your mind now, this person cannot — he cannot go to a club, he cannot go to a bar. He cannot have a boyfriend. He cannot be seen in public with another guy because the media is gonna screw him. So what are they gonna do? 1-800-RAFAEL, or they go on Rentboy which is easy. Call a Rentboy, an escort. It’s easy. They come, they leave. I’m gonna say one name because he’s in public now, John Travolta, who used to not pay the escorts.

He would trick these masseuses.

Masseur under another name — escort. I have two friends who went with him. I’m just saying his name because he’s in public now. I’m not going to disclose any name, but he used to hire the people, people would go there, he didn’t pay them money. And that pissed everybody off.

That’s why he’s found out and others aren’t.

Right. Come on it’s very easy. All the guys want is to be paid and that’s it. They keep their mouths shut.

But he never hired you?

It’s private. I will not say the name of the people who hired me. But all the people you have in mind, actors, singers, a lot of people from congress. Political people from DC. They all hire me, because it’s safe.

What is the best city for you in terms of escorting?

New York. Definitely.

Some people say D.C. is great.

D.C.’s good for a short term. Good for a week. Especially because Congress is not always on all the time. They take vacations all the time. D.C.’s far and away smaller than New York. Less tourists, less business than New York. New York is huge. I’m here for 8 years. My phone rang off the hook the first day I arrived here.

So you can just travel anywhere you want and do anything you want basically?

Yeah. I think so. If I move to London now, I can start over again and make money and survive. Thanks to my father who gave me a big dick.

Did your father have a big dick too?

He has a huge dick. When we talk about porn movies, I think the major thing is if you have a big dick and then later big ass, and then after beautiful body, beautiful face. Know what I mean?

Beyond your dick can you rate your attributes?

Ha! That’s for you to judge, not for me to say. I use my time for traveling. I speak, like, many languages. I can give this interview in Hebrew, in German, in Portuguese, in Italian, Spanish.

How did you learn so many languages?

I travel a lot. I was born speaking Portuguese and when you’re born speaking a Latin language you kind of learn four or five at the same time. My mother is German-Jewish, so I learned Hebrew and I moved to Germany.

But you’re not cut.

Right! Isn’t that cool. There are so many uncut Jews in the world actually. Yes. I want to keep it like this for a while. I had a problem once that mr. Pam was with me, and I had to go to the hospital. I’m not going to mention what happened but the doctor said I have to circumcise you, and I remember I was unconscious and I remember she was fighting with the doctor saying, “You can’t circumcise him, he’s a very famous porn star and you can’t change that. That’s how he makes his living.” And she was able to convince the doctor. And so I remain uncircumcised. I still have my foreskin.

But you won’t say what happened?

Oh. I could. I don’t know if it’s going to be fun. I broke my dick. How many porn stars do you know that broke their dick? Maybe one in a million. A straight porn star where the woman rides the dick and breaks it and you have to go to the hospital. I went to the hospital and I was out of commission for over three months. But then I’m fine now.

How long ago was that?

Three, four years ago. And thank you very much because I’m giving this interview to NakedSword and mr. Pam was by my side all the time.RafaelAlencar_left_4

Were you having sex with a guy or a girl?

I was working with a guy. I was escorting.

Do you have sex with women?

Yeah I do. They’re fun. They’re hot.

How often?

I have ads for men and women.

Women hire you a lot?

Yeah. A lot. Men are faster and women take longer. I do a lot of couples. Men want to see me fucking their wives. So I do that. Yeah. They normally — when I get to the hotel, the woman’s in the bed and the husband’s in the chair jerking off, saying, “I want you to fuck my wife.” I say, let’s do it. Men are fun. I like men more.

Do you label yourself in terms of — straight, gay, bi, or whatever?

No. I think when I’m with a guy I’m totally with the guy. When I’m with a girl in bed I am only with her. I’m not making fantasies in my head. With a girl I’m fucking her and focusing on her. And I have dreams and fantasies with her. Only. I don’t label myself. Maybe I’m bisexual. If you want to call me gay it’s fine. If you want to call me straight it’s fine.

You’re just Latin.

Yeah. Brazilians are all bisexual. You’re right.

What makes you happiest in your life?

I think I got everything I want. I got money. I have some savings like you said. I have my own apartment now. I travel all over the world, which is the thing that I like the most. I meet great people. I have wonderful people around me. People are nice to me. I’m healthy and I want to be like this for a long time. Most of my friends are fighting with some disease, I love them all but I don’t have it. I’m very — I like the way they are. I’m very thankful that I’m not sick. I’m healthy.

Are you safe with your clients?

Yes. That’s what keeps me healthy. I guess. If we’re gonna talk about that lets talk about it. Let’s talk about HIV. I’m negative and I want to stay this way. I don’t use drugs, drugs help you go crazy and go bare, so I don’t do any drugs. I think actually when you talk about doing raw sex with me, I get soft. It turns me off. Because probably you are positive and you want to have sex with me raw and so it’s hard for me to get hard. But I did so many charities for HIV in my life, in the last ten years. All the charities invite me over to dance, to raffle underwear and I don’t get one penny for that. I donate my fee and whatever money I collect from the people I donate them.

Where does it come from that you’re like that? A lot of the people in your industry don’t behave as strictly as you say you do? What makes you so committed to being safe. You also work for a studio that changed over to bareback.

Yes. We can talk about that. That’s the only little argument I have with them. They want me to do the new line, which is bareback, and I say I’m sorry I don’t want to do that. Even though they say, “Rafael it’s very easy, negative fucks negative and positive fucks positive,” I just don’t want to do it because when you’re watching the movie at home you have no idea if we did tests or not. Plus I work as an escort, and I don’t want people knocking my door telling me, “I know you bareback, I saw the movie, so fuck me raw.”

Then you’d have no power.

I’d have no power because I did a raw movie. I never did a raw movie in my life. On the other hand I did a movie for Men.com, and it was Mr. Pam who introduced me to this studio. And Men.com may be one of the only gay studios that requires a full blood test to do the movie because they belong to Playboy, I guess. Something like that. Every time I do a movie for them, they take blood, and so I’m going to do a movie for Men.com tomorrow, I did a blood test on Wednesday. So they find out if you’re negative, if you have any gonorrhea, syphilis, everything. You have to be totally disease-free to do a scene. Even there we use a condom.

You know what is funny? Since I’m doing a lot of Men.com and a lot of the other studios know how they’re very restrictive, and there are not too many negative porn stars left. Because of that, I felt discrimination against me. It’s supposed to be the other way around, but they say, “Oh Rafael is negative, because he does Men.com.” I heard that three times. But I’m a normal guy. I’m negative. I’m a normal guy. Other reason I keep myself negative is because I’m alone in this country. I have no family here. And believe it or not I don’t have health insurance. I don’t want to get in trouble. I can’t afford to be positive. I can’t afford it. It’s gonna be too expensive for me to buy medicine, to take care of myself. I’m very sloppy. I barely shave my beard. I take showers, but I barely shave. I would never be able to remember to take the pills every day. No offense to the other people, all my best friends are positive. I love them all. People that I know for many years, they’re all positive. And we’re still together. We’re still friends. I can’t afford it mentally. I can’t buy pills. I can’t remember to buy pills. So I have to keep myself negative.

It’s good to hear you say that. Who is your best friend in porn?

My best friend in porn is the person who stays behind the camera. It’s not an actor, it’s not an actress. It’s still mr. Pam. She’s the one knew me from the beginning in the United States, and we’re still together. We keep in touch all these years. For ten years we keep in touch. I have many friends but she’s the one who we are in touch still and the one who I want to be in touch with for the next hundred years. I think she’s the best. I have other friends too.

What do you think makes mr. Pam such a good friend?

I think she was always there when I needed it the most. We are very similar. She’s a slut. I’m a slut. I’m kidding. She does porn. I do porn. She likes to travel. I like to travel. I think she likes me. I like her. I wish I could meet more people like her. It’s very hard to find it. We have a problem in common that we are super busy. So sometimes we get conflicts or little arguments with each other because she doesn’t have time for me, I don’t have time for her. She comes to New York I can’t see her, I go to San Francisco I can’t see her. But we made a commitment a long time ago that we’re going to be together for a long time even if we can’t be together immediately. I never shared this thing with a guy. I would love to but it never happened. Again I don’t say that I’m straight. I’m just saying that she was the one who was available. She was the one who said yes, I’d like to share the same dream that you have. I tried with one or two guys but it didn’t work.

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It sounds a lot like a boyfriend, girlfriend situation?

It could be. Even friends with her would be worth it. If not boyfriend we could be friends too. I think she’s more horny than me. She likes sex more than me. I love sex but she likes it more than me.

Do you guys have sex?

I don’t know if it’s good to say but I could say yes if she agrees. Ask her later if I could put it in there. I think it’s fine because I fuck all over the world and she did too, so it’s not a problem to say that. Yeah we had it, and it’s great. (laughs) I had a lot of sex with some guys which was great too.

But it works well with her.

Yeah. But she lives in San Francisco, I live in New York.

Ok, so I’ll ask you the one last question that I have to ask but you don’t have to answer.

No I have the right answer, and I know what you’re going to ask.

People say you had butt implants.

I didn’t have it. And I’ll tell you something. I have a brother who is straight and married. His ass and dick is bigger than mine. I had a picture of when I was a kid, my butt and dick was huge. I will tell you more things. I thought I had a big ass and a big dick until I come to New York, and meet black guys — their dick is huge and their ass is even bigger. They have huge asses and dicks. I don’t believe they have butt implants.

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Why do you think that rumor started?

I love it because it makes me feel rich. A publicist said to me “never deny or never agree.” Let them talk and this way you’re always gonna be in the media. Always people are going to talk about you. The day you say, yes you had a butt implant, people are not going to want to talk about you any more. The day you say you don’t have it they’ll keep writing about you forever. Which is awesome. Once in a while I go to a blog and they talk about my dick and my ass. Which is great. I love it. I would hate to see myself fading. I have porn stars who started their careers far after me and they disappeared because there’s nothing left to talk about with me. People only talk about you when they have something bad to talk about you. Paris Hilton used to be famous when she was a bad girl. She became a good girl. Nobody talks about her anymore. And then there’s the one that came after who went to jail and rehab.

Lindsay Lohan.

She’s a bad girl. Everybody keeps talking about her. Good thing people want to talk. It’s fine. Make me feel rich, and keep me in the media. Men.com said to me once, “You are the model that sells the most in my studio because people give you good reviews, bad reviews, no matter what you get you’re on the top of the conversation. Other models are very good looking but nobody talks about them. You’re controversial. Which is awesome. So by the way, I don’t have it, and I had an x-ray taken like 3 years ago. I go to the gym every day. I work out my ass, my legs, my pecs. I do squats. I do abs. if there is no result I would just quit, go home, watch TV, and eat popcorn. Come on. I have to get a result. That’s it. Anybody’s welcome to come and pinch my ass, touch my dick, welcome to come find out if it’s real or not. I’ll be very glad.

 

Adam Baran is a filmmaker, blogger, former online editor of Butt Magazine and co-curator of Queer/Art/Film. His short film JACKPOT, about a porn-hunting gay teen, won Best Short Film at the Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, and was recently featured on The Huffington Post, Queerty, and Towleroad, among others. He is a features programmer at Outfest Los Angeles LGBT Film Festival and NewFest in New York. In his spare time, he complains about things to his friends. “Fisting for Compliments”, his weekly musings about the intersection of sex, art, porn, and history, will appear every Monday on TheSword. You can contact him at Adam@TheSword.com and follow him on Twitter at @ABaran999. Here’s the Fisting For Compliments archive.

 

 

 

71 thoughts on “Rafael Alencar on Leaving Porn, Fucking Famous Clients, and Breaking His Dick”

  1. Well. either he was wishful thinking or he was just full of shit. This interview was done about 4 1/2 years ago and no, he did not retire. More over, he DOES do bareback/raw videos and seems he has done many. So he was just bullshitting when he said he would never do a raw video. Anything for the almighty dollar!
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  2. He hasn’t aged well.
    Porn is a tough business.
    Always looking for the new
    The bigger
    Bad complexion
    Scars

  3. it makes me REALLY jealous that he also has sex with women. I bet you any gay guy would take that massive cock any day. Hes also super hot and has a great personality.

  4. rafael is a very handsome and sexy man,i would love to have him as a lifetime lover.i also love uncut men,my last full lover was latino,and uncut.latino men know how to make love,and great kissers,and fuckers.they are great.A blessing from God,and Heaven.!

  5. BASICALLY HE’S A SLUT WITH DISCIPLINARY MEASURES, who takes precautions but no prescriptions. It oNLY takes ONE TIME. Lets hope he keeps playing safe.

  6. That was a very cool interview. He came across just like the Brazilian guys I know, lol, full of confidence and super positive – about themselves usually, lol. He was very refreshing

  7. I think he is so hot and i would love to have sex with him, but fuck paying for sex. Aint nobody got time for that life

  8. I am very happy for Raphael and although I live in San Francisco and he performs here often I have never seen him in person. I love the fact that he is drug free and uses safe sex and is keeping it real with what he believes in confidentiality. Whether he sleeps with whomever, whatever, however is his choice and his life. You are well spoken Raphael and have gifts to share with humanity especially your verbal message. I have a gay brother and we both kept thinking his butt was too beautiful and delectable to be real. We are glad.. that it is …what it is… REAL! I will have to check it out next time you are in town. Been a fan for over 2 decades plus. God Bless

  9. He’s such a liar… When he’s on meth , and he is very often on meth , he fucks and gets fuck raw, total bareback..
    He’s such a liar…My God !!!1

    1. Well, you can tell his ass is fake in the pornos he does, so I can only imagine how fake it must look in person.
      He’s probably in the shower trying to garner attention & attract potential “clients”….that’s what a lot of “pornstars” do here. Or they hit me up on sites trying to hook up. But once I recognize them having done porn & am not interested, they get mad. LoL.
      Most of these guys are trying to escape their porn past. When confronted about having done porn, they either get mad, try to lie, go silent, quietly exit, or some are bold & acknowledge it.

  10. This guy has such a repulsive, piggish personality. If he knew what was good for his career he would be seen and NEVER heard. And honey that ass is the fakest thing I’ve ever seen. How stupid do you think we are?

    1. I wouldn’t say his personality it repulsive. It just seems that he’s rather arrogant, but trying to come off humble.
      Obviously he’s delusional. If he were making so much money in porn, then he wouldn’t be prostituting himself out. I’m sure he’ll be coming back to porn in a few years, once his wealthy clients replace him with a “new and improved” prostitute. And even a blind man could see that is ass s “fake”.

  11. I used to fuck his boyfriend Tomas, aka Hans Hintern from Kristen Bjorn, off and on for a few years. Hans ALWAYS wanted it raw, so was Rafael banging him with a condom?

    1. Usually while dating, men engage in raw sex.
      So if Hans wanted it raw, he was probably accustomed to raw sex.
      And if he was “cheating” on his bodyfriend & wanted raw sex, then obviously he wasn’t concerned about possibly contracting anything. These types of people who have no fear, generally already are infected with something or think they are invincible, or assumes you both have the same HIV/STD status.

      The better question is, why didn’t you ever ask him why he always wants raw sex?

  12. I am certainly not in the “professional” know as the above commenters seem to be, rather, I am an avid, loving fan of Raphael Alencar. I am probably too old 75 to be able to be indulged by his sexual talents but I have found in him a strong, convincing sense of his self respect…he is comfortable in his own skin. He is very handsome and has a body of a Latin/Greek god and enjoys sharing it with others, men and women. I would cherish knowing Raphael and counting him as my friend and me his. Loyalty is at the top of my list of attributes which I believe he offers. I also see him as a young man regardless of his chronological age and it has always been my observation that he knows how to have fun. He loves people, especially those who he knows love him. and….who gives a shit about “implants”. I’d like a bigger dick if at all possible as well. I’ll always be Raphael’s fan and wantabe friend…only wish I could tell him that to his face.

  13. I’ve seen Rafael Alencar in New York once. He was in a private fashion week party with Calvin Klein and another famous woman (of fashion business).
    He looked smoking hot and I bet his relationship with Calvin Klein at that time was not only friendship.

  14. i like Rafael but the way it was transcript, he sounds like a dick. Maybe if the interview was on video … and he does have implants you can clearly see the outline of the prosthesis in that scene with Jessie Colter

  15. I always get a kick out of “Porn Star”
    Still trying to figure out what exactly makes them a STAR…LoL
    I stopped watching him years ago..way over due to leave the porn!

  16. Actually that was a really great interview. His position against barebacking is very welcome and refreshing to read…..that being said, wasn’t there some bizarre scandal involving Raphael killing kittens?

    Or am I thinking of another porn star?

    1. Maybe he did a crushing fetish for one of his clients and stomped on some kittens while wearing boots or high heels. Yes, that’s a thing. I learned about it after that woman who was stomping on a poor kitten with her high heels was released and outraged most of us who saw it at that time.

  17. I would like to thank TheSword again for not removing my post you are still a gay porn blog unlike QMN and Str8upgayporn of Zach which are now caters on straight readers and straight slaves. I hope The Sword and Men Of Porn just continue by doing so.

    1. ^100% true on all accounts^

      Not only did we hook up and have 3 hours of marathon sex that was not recorded in any way except pictures on my cell phone, but I most definitely did not pay him for it. Actually, he gave me some chocolate and a protein shake to replenish when we were done. So yeah, the “I do not hook-up” line is total bullshit… leave that shit for Kelly Clarkson.

    2. The link doesn’t work man. I guess it got taken down.
      Could you summarize what was mentioned in it?

      Also, Rafael would be smart not to speak negatively about Michael Lucas, since he’s a big name in the gay porn industry. And we all know how these pornstars say they are “retiring” only to come back to do porn in a few week, to a few months, to a few years. Michael Lucas could ruin any plans of him ever doing porn again & could also affect his prostitution by revealing some “secrets”.

  18. So he broke his dick 3-4 years ago. I need to compare his old dick with his new one, because his dick has gotten longer and fatter since his debut in porn. Perhaps there was a huge difference around that time.

    Also he could very well be right that he does not have ass implants, however they never did talk about ass injections, which most of us think is what he did to himself.

    1. Technically we can’t “break our dicks”, because there’s no bones, only connective tissue. So he meant he tore his dick.

      But yes, I’ve noticed a lot of pornstars who’s dicks have gotten bigger since their debuts in porn.

      That whole “breaking his dick” story sounds like a clever cover up for dick enhancement surgery. I mean basically the only thing that happens to our dicks as we age is that it starts to angle downward more when erect. An increase in both length & girth are tell tale signs of surgery.

      Plus he’s not willing to disclose the details of “breaking” his dick, which is another indicator that he’s hiding something.

      But having surgery to make his dick bigger is a smart move, since he does porn & prostitution.

  19. I was hoping he’d say something about Michael Lucas and Lucas’ switch to bareback. Did their friendship end with their professional relationship?

    1. There’s no telling what his stance on the matter is. But if he left duckface’s studio I think it clearly shows something happened between the 2 of them.

      I do remember though that there was a post that someone with the screename “Rafael Alencar” put up on QueerMeNow explaining shady practices from duckface that Zach on his own site Str8UpGayPorn confirmed as true. Another “Rafael Alencar” posted on Str8UpGayPorn saying that he has never had a negative thing to say about duckface and all those claims on the QMN site were untrue. I doubt that either of those were the real RA, but Zach did say what was written on QMN was totally true, since Zach was at NakedSword when the whole deal with Mr. Pam and duckface went on.

    2. Don’t get it twisted (confused), just because these guys seem friendly in front of the cam, doesn’t mean they are friends.
      Michael Lucas is still an employer & Rafael was his employee. I’m pretty sure that was the extent of their “friendship”. Perhaps they may have had sex with each other off cam (like most of these studio owners do with their “models”), but I don’t think they were ever truly friends.
      Otherwise he’d name Michael Lucas when asked about his friends during the interview.
      Obviously Rafael not doing raw porn was difficult for his career, because even LucasEnt. switched to doing raw porn, because it’s in high demand (despite past claims that he’d never do raw porn).

  20. I do call shenanigans on one or two things he says… Brazilians are not only known for “bisexuality,” but also plastic surgery.

    So, I think “raffy” has had some work done. We just don’t know what it is…and frankly, more power to him if does get a tune up here or there, because he is in a profession about looks and sexuality alone. :D

    I always got the sense from him, even before porn and escorting, that he doesn’t get a lot of guys who want to “date” him…they want to use him for sex. Every so often I see posts from him requesting “dates” from guys, or advocating going out to dinner or movies.

    A lot of guys in this profession, or who are insanely hot, mostly get bedmates but never lifemates because people are so wired to think of them as sexual objects, that the idea of actually having a relationship never dawns on people. So I’m sure he gets lonely sometimes.

    He might have a loft in NYC, and he might be “busy” all the time, but that doesn’t satiate a need for actual human contact and conversation.

    Best of luck to him finding this. It is a very hard thing to get for anyone, let alone a porn star/escort.

    1. LoL. I was thinking the same thing too. Brazilian Butt Lift.
      He’s definitely had some work done & we all know it was his butt. I’ve seen enough people (having worked in the medical field myself) with butt implants and butt injections to know the difference.
      Because with that low percentage of body fat his butt wouldn’t be that big, round, & wouldn’t jiggle at all (because it’d basically be “solid muscle”). I know because I lift weights & when I was in the military & got down to about 4% bodyfat I was ripped, but my butt was high, round & solid (& I’m a black guy).
      But also your heritage does play a part in your butt size too. My family has large butts, and it’s true most black guys do have larger butts & dicks in comparison to other groups of ppl (not saying all, but on average most do).
      Now if he were a black guy, I’d be more inclined to believe him having a big butt, but then again another black gay pornstar by the name of Hotrod had butt implants (but his were obvious because he’s a skinny dude).

      But it’s money well invested if having a nice body is what makes him his money.

  21. 1. it’s time he leave sporn, he’s still hot i guess for some guys who fancy him, and he was not a bad performer but it is time to go, age is calling
    2. I’m happy he’s negative, good for him and show he’s got some brains and character too
    3. financially: does he really make so much money to purchase all those properties? Really??????? I thought these guys were exploited and not well-paid? am I wrong or is he putting up a story? I mean woning so much property but not even have social security?
    4. should i really believe all that “shit” about hollywood and DC?

    1. I can vouch for the DC, Money, and Famous clients. In NYC I used to be able to charge 500.00/hr during my hayday. Porn and escorting is not what it once was. The money today is way less than it was in the past. You have to remember people like Rafael and I made money in a multitude of ways, Porn, escorting, club appearances, modelling, magazines, books, photographers, etc. At one time it was pretty darn lucrative.

    2. Most pornstrs make the vast majority of their money escorting (aka prostitution). They only get paid a few hundred per scene ($100-$600) and only do a few scenes every so often.(perhaps 4-5 every 3 months, depending on how high demand they are). In comparison the studios who sell multiple videos with their scenes in them, making several times that. They also sell them internationally & can essentially sell the videos forever because the studio & not the pornstars own the rights). So someone like Michael Lucas I would believe could make these assertions more than Rafael (but he lives in an apartment & just brought a 3 bedroom house, it’s not like he brought a mansion on so many acres of land in a place like California or New York).

      Properties in Brazil are cheap, in comparison to properties in the U.S. Also you are thinking he owns mansions in Brazil, when more than likely the homes would be considered run down by American standards.

      But of course he’s not making as much money as he claims, otherwise he’d be on the Forbes lists. Not to mention the IRS would be keeping tabs on him. But prostituting himself out he probably makes a few hundred a “date” & it’s tax free. It all depends on if he’s willing and able to do whatever his clients wish. Remember some of these people are extremely old, obese, ugly & perverted.

      I’m glad that he negative (or so he claims….like many pornstars have & we’ve discovered later on that they were in fact positive. Erik Rhodes is a prime example). But I’m confident he engages in raw sex with some of his clientele. He just uses the whole “no bareback” statement as leverage to hike up the price. Which is pretty clever.

      Anyone can tell he’s gotten butt implants…so like many other pornstars that want you to think they are perfect, he’s going to deny it. But when h’s in his 60’s-70’s with a nice round ass, that sags because his skin has lost its elasticity then he’ll have no recourse but to tell the truth.

      But this interview was good. He seems a likeable enough guy.

  22. Im a fan of Rafael but he’s still confused whether he’s straight or not. And this Mr. Pam is he gay or a real woman. Not so much like this interview. I hope next time please do one with Gabriel Clark and Rafael Carreras.

    1. If anyone is confused it’s you for thinking someone has to have a concrete definition of their sexuality.

  23. We have here a male-prostitute in his hay days ( Kinda ” arch whore ” ). As people like him worth what they have to show, it’s a good thing he’d saved money and bought properties because when he’ll be done that’s the only thing that will remain. No youth, no looks and with a character molded by years of debauchery ( Fair people will find hard to deal with someone with a past like this ).

    1. Wow. Harsh and judgmental, like a true Phelps Family member.

      Today we don’t brand “whore” on someones forehead like they did in the 1620’s-So it isn’t like he is going to live with guilt or social stigma, like a certain commentator on this board wishes.

      “No youth, no looks and with a character molded by years of debauchery” — As opposed to what: No youth, no looks and with a character molded by years of sexless abstinence? Well, props to you, you just became a bitter old queen earlier than the rest of us “whores” and debauchees.

  24. Very important message in this interview. How far the gay porn industry has come to discriminate against him because he is HIV negative and takes pride in that. It seems the entire industry today is run by HIV poz guys who only hire HIV poz guys to do raw and raw things.

    1. Really agree that this message is important and also very sad. My only regret re Rafael’s “retirement” is that he has not done one last bottoming scene. He did a few of those quite early in his career and did not seem to have a problem with it. Wish he would get fucked on video one last time, in a scene using condoms of course.

    2. I’m sorry but that is just plain false. I’m frankly sick of people being so self righteous about practicing safer sex. Many of us enjoy bareback porn because it’s a fantasy that perhaps we only fantasize about and bareback porn just fulfills the visual of that fantasy. I can’t stay hard seeing a condom on a half erect cock. It ruins the fantasy of flesh to flesh sex. Also, bareback porn usually has guys who are more erect and shoot harder and stronger on average.

  25. Awww I love you Raffy!
    Wow, what a beautiful interview. I have soooo enjoyed being a part of your successful career since that first shoot in Palm Springs for Studio2000. Then when we bonded in the kitchen on your Black Scorpion shoot of “Dreams of Rafael”. Then I loved to NYC and we bonded in life. You are so amazing – and I love that we “get” each other and our crazy porno/sex lives. I still have dreams of opening our Bed & Breakfast in the Caribbean – with hot gay guys wandering around fucking in the pool and slings while we serve them tea and eggs. yay!

    Love you forever Raffy!
    …your fan & friend for life…
    mr. Pam

    1. mr. Pam, you just cracked me the fuck up. If you ever do open that B&B in the Caribbean, I would be honored to have you serve me tea and eggs while I’m being fucked in one of your slings. xoxox

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