Which destinations are on your travel vision board? For some of us, combining our travel adventures with some sexual encounters is the aspirational vacation.
Let’s take a look at how to get the most bang for your travel buck.
Why Go on a Trip to Have Gay Sex?
While we obviously can have sex without getting a stamp in our passport, there’s something about being on vacation that puts us in a different headspace – a more sexual headspace.
Being on vacation means being out of our day-to-day routines. We’re in an unfamiliar place, perhaps experiencing an unfamiliar culture, seeing unfamiliar faces.
Traveling also allows us to be someone different – you’re liberated from the peer-group pressure of your friends and family back home, you’ve got the freedom to explore new things with zero consequences.
For example, if you’ve been wondering what it would be like to grow a moustache, pull on some leather, and hit a gay sex club hard, then a mini-break to Berlin is precisely the moment to lean in and explore how that fantasy feels in reality.
How Do I Plan a Gay Sex Vacation?
While you can find guys eager for some man-on-man action pretty much wherever you are in the world, if an abundance of sex is high on your list of travel priorities, then choosing a sex-positive destination is a good starting point.
That’s not just opting for a country where gay sex is legal – although that’s probably a sensible starting point – but look for destinations with a vibrant and visible queer community, local gay sex clubs or cruising bars where you’ll be able to meet other guys easily, and also events or festivals that are going to bring a lot of men together.
For example, Lisbon is a sexy city to visit at any time of the year, but why not time your vacation with the city’s Bear Week? Increase your hook-up opportunities with men who are down for a good time.
The planning phase is also a good opportunity to put the technology to work. There are loads of gay travel guides and travel influencers, but you can also draw on the hive knowledge of your social media network and the guys that you chat with on hook-up apps such as Squirt. Put it out there that you’re looking for sex-positive travel suggestions and see which suggestions best match the travel adventures that you’re dreaming of.
How Do I Find Gay Sex on Vacation?
If you’ve only got limited time in a destination, start laying the groundwork before you even get there.
Different hook-up apps have different functionality, but Squirt enables you to chat with guys anywhere in the world.
Maybe you’re planning a trip to Buenos Aires – use the technology to start chatting with local guys in Buenos Aires. Not only can you ask for tips on where to stay and what to do, but you’re also sounding them out to see if they might be up for some fun when you get there.
Doing a bit of research on the local laws and customs is also a good move before you board your flight. It’s not just figuring out what’s legal and what’s not – although that’s an essential first step – but also understanding things such as cultural attitudes to public displays of affection.
For example, some parts of Greece are more conservative than others. No one is going to raise an eyebrow if you’re snogging a guy on the beaches of Mykonos, but in parts of Athens, that would probably draw some unwelcome attention.
You may be concerned that language barriers might cock-block your search for vacation hook-ups, so brush up on your old-school cruising body language. You can convey a lot with just a bit of eye contact, and then you just need to let your words do the talking.
What Are Some Top Gay Sex Vacation Spots that Guarantee Gay Fun and Hookups?
We’ve mentioned a few hot and horny spots above where gay males tend to go for some anonymous sex and a good time, but we took a closer eye on some of the best gay travel spots courtesy of horny Squirt user phil9325, who takes many gay trips to various locales to get bred hard, here are some of his top places.
Palm Springs, California, USA
Palm Springs is a popular gay destination with many clothing-optional men-only hotels and resorts. Some options include Casa Oliver, Triangle Inn, Vista Grande Resort, and the Hacienda. Other options include the Trixie Motel or regular hotels with pools. Expect to be surrounded by families and clothes at regular hotels, which is so ew!
For a fun night out in Palm Springs, check out Hunters Nightclub for a high-energy video bar experience. Flirt with locals and the sexy bar staff. For cruising, head to Dick’s (formerly Eagle 501) for a bear and muscle man scene, or Club541 for a sex club experience with glory holes and dark rooms. Be prepared for anything to happen at Club541, especially during Cumunion events.
Berlin, Germany
Lab.oratory in Berlin is a gay sex club for men only with strict theme nights. They have limited hours for entry and only take cash at the bar. Expect a wild time with lots of action in the dungeon-like atmosphere. No phones allowed for photos or videos.
Manhattan, New York, USA
There are endless options for things to do in New York City. Visit Brooklyn, the Upper East and West Sides, Downtown, and Times Square during the day. In the summer, check out Central Park for some interesting sights. For a more adventurous evening, visit the Ramble in Central Park, a popular cruising spot. Don’t forget to catch a musical or play in the theater district, and look for last-minute deals under the red stairs in Times Square.
The Eagle in NYC is a popular spot for horny gays looking to have a good time. It offers three floors of fun, including dancing, cruising, and playing with sexy daddies. Arrive early to avoid long lines, and be prepared to pay a cover depending on the event. Wednesday is Jockstrap Night, making it a great time to visit, as well as Friday and Saturday nights.
Bogota, Colombia
Bogota is getting hot as a place where all types of gay males are going for cheap thrills and horny exotic men. Begin your journey through La Candelaria in Bogotá by exploring the old town, savouring Juan Valdez coffee, and ascending Monseratte Mountain for breathtaking city views. Be aware of the altitude and visit the mountain after lunch to avoid fog. Explore El Chapinero and El Chico for more residential areas and try Andres Carne de Res for a must-do food experience.
Bogotá has a vibrant gay party scene with popular spots like Attic & Keller and Chiquita. The biggest club in South America, Theatron, is a must-visit with its four floors, 13 dance floors, and 10 bars. It’s a place to dress up, hang out with friends, and have a good time, rather than a typical dark room party scene. Bring your party outfit and get ready for a fun night out in Bogotá.
Paris, France
Ten years ago, Paris hardly had a gym culture, but with the gays came the desire to look buff, pump weights, and pump cock even harder!
Paris is full of gay bars, from cruising to dance clubs to fisting bars. From Secteur X for happy hour and L’Impact Bar for some hot action. Make sure to be fully naked at L’Impact and be ready for some intense play.
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Puerto Vallarta is an excellent destination for a vacation or a wild few days. You can choose from a variety of accommodations, including all-inclusive resorts. If you want to be in the heart of the gay scene, stay in the Zona Romantica. There are plenty of gay-friendly stores, gyms, and the gay beach area for cruising.
Puerto Vallarta also offers nude boat tours and naked pool parties for those looking to get friskier. Book in advance for the boat tours and expect a mixed crowd at the pool parties. Have fun and enjoy the freedom to be naked and explore your desires.
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Check out Sauna Nieuwezijds in Amsterdam for a great time with plenty of dick, free drinks, and a full kitchen—naked night on Tuesdays for those who love full nudity and instant action.
There are also several gay bars and clubs in Amsterdam, including Dirty Dicks, The Web, and Club Church. Dirty Dicks, enjoys the grungy and horny vibe and some hot action; The Web, which caters to older daddies, bears, and leather fans. Club Church was another favorite, with different events throughout the week for a wild and naked party experience.
Can I Have Gay Sex on the Beach?
Beaches always seem to bring with them a low level of sexual energy – the combination of sun, sand, and skin kick-starts our libido and has us wondering what might be possible.
But even if you’re sunning yourself on a gay naked beach like in PV, you need to be a little bit cautious before letting your dick do the thinking.
We’ve all seen the videos of guys getting fucked in public on the beach at Gran Canaria, as well. It happens, but it’s not without risks – the authorities aren’t wild about it and occasionally patrol the area to keep an eye on things.
Most beach sex happens away from where everyone is sunbathing on the sand. You’ll probably need to explore the dunes, or the rocks, or wherever it’s a bit secluded. Put your powers of observation to work – where are the guys walking to as they wander up and down the beach?
Suppose you want to do some research before you get to the beach. In that case, Squirt has user-generated cruising listings that include handy details such as how to find the cruising area—invaluable information for the horny traveler.
What Precautions Can Gay Travelers Take to Stay Safe?
Travel insurance is a good starting point – if something goes wrong, getting the support of your insurance company will generally make things a lot easier.
But the main precaution you can take is to use your common sense. If something feels risky, you need to be extra vigilant. If something feels a bit off, trust your instincts and make sensible choices. Be on the lookout for the red flags.
We’re never more vulnerable than when we’re searching for intimacy. If you’re in a destination where you don’t speak the language and don’t know the local laws, you need to avoid letting your horniness ruin your vacation.
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