If you were a rich man that was having the best sex of their life, would you want your partner to quit their job so their ass can always be ready for you to enter? If you were a young man with a sugar daddy that was willing to pay for your entire life as long as you were always ready to fuck 3-5 times a day, would you quit your job?
Those may not be relatable questions that everyone has to ask themselves, but they are two questions that are probably going through the minds of the men that are the subject of a recent Reddit post on the popular /r/relationships subreddit.
The post comes from a 34-year-old man with a “very high paying job” who is in a relationship with a 21-year-old man that he met through Seeking Arrangement, a site that’s essentially only used for pairing up sugar daddies and sugar babies. In the post, the sugar daddy describes his boyfriend as the “hottest/sexiest guy I’ve ever laid my eyes on.” He also reveals that they are “madly in love” and regularly have sex up to five times a day!
“I’m top and naturally he’s bottom,” writes the sugar daddy in the Reddit post. “Fast forward 18 or so months and the situation is somewhat unique. We’re madly in love and we have sex 3 – 5 times a day, every day, without fail. Morning, sometimes twice, then after I finish work, and then before sleep – once or twice more. Needless to say, we both sleep well after all that!”
The man then goes on to say that his young boyfriend recently brought up the idea of fully quitting his part-time bakery job so he can always be “ready” for sex and the two can continue fucking at such a frequent pace. The sugar daddy writes that while he loves having a stay-at-home partner, he is worried about what this will look like in the long term.
“Firstly, is this all sustainable?” says the older boyfriend. “We’ve kept up the pace of 3-5x a day for 18 months – with absolutely no sign of it fizzling out… but does anyone else have experience with such an intense (and long) honeymoon period? What might happen 5 – 10 years down the line? And is this all fair on him? He gets to chill all day (which he loves and I’m fine with), but he’s sacrificing work and/or building a career – for the sake of sex. And that’s the most amazing thing ever and I love him for it… but should we really just tone it down a little and make space for him to work, socialize, etc so he’s not missing out? ”
This post was officially made on Reddit only a couple of hours ago, but has already been taken down by moderators. It is not immediately clear what community rules the post broke that led to it being taken down, but the original post can be viewed on Twitter and on Rareddit if you’re interested. While the actual post has been taken off the /r/relationships page, the original comments and reactions to the post can still be viewed on Reddit.
While a few of the original comments have a slight range in reaction, most point out the power imbalance between the two men, say that it’s unfair that the younger boyfriend isn’t able to start a life and career of his own, and come to the ultimate conclusion that this situation probably isn’t sustainable.
One Redditor took a different route with their comment and just asked if having anal sex 5 times a day is healthy for the body. (No, seriously though… Having hardcore anal sex five times a day, every day seems like way too much. Give his hole a break, please!) Another person reacted to this story on Twitter by saying that since they met on Seeking Arrangement, the young man “didn’t quit his job” and instead “got a better paying one in which he gets railed non-stop.” Oop!
you met on seeking arrangements. I hate to break it to you but he didn’t quit his job, he got a better paying one in which he gets railed non-stop
— reverend dirt squirrel (@dirtsquirrel2) September 27, 2021
Since the official Reddit comments for this post are now closed, let us know what you think of this situation down in the comments. Is it okay for the young man to want to quit his job and be a stay-at-home partner that’s always ready to fuck? Would you quit your job and have sex fives times a day? Do you know anyone that actually has anal sex five times a day, every day? Sound off with all your hot thoughts below.
Anybody who has sex 3-5 times a day everyday needs to see a shrink. They need to get a healthy balance in their lives. Sex is awesome but it should not be an all consuming activity in a healthy persons life.
1st it’s on redit…everyone needs to take this with a 10kg salt lick.
2nd Oh honey please. Having a 21 yo around 24/7 is emotionally exhausting, and no one, other than another 21 yo, should have to deal with the shit storm that follows them around like the stench of shite coming from a Phoenix diaper service delivery truck on the hottest day of the year.
3rd he will leave you for a richer, buffer or younger (2 of the 3 is usually all it takes) model within 5 years.
Put him into school; it keeps them out of your hair and gives them something to fall back on. It also gives him a hunting ground for some fun 3 ways, 4 way…
I can’t believe these two are adults, is this serious? This reminds me of a young lady I heard about recently who was convinced to move in with her wealthy boyfriend, quit school and not get a job. She got dumped for a younger model after several years and ended up broke with no marketable skills, taking a low paying job and ended up being screwed. Without the legality of marriage the law considers you two roommates who have no legal obligations to each other. Be wise, always have an escape plan aka plan ‘B’ in case something goes south.
In the late 1960’s actor Lee Marvin shacked up with his girlfriend Michelle Triola. This case made national news headlines. They lived together for many years as man and wife, Michelle taking on the last name Marvin , never got married, shared a home together and the usual things couples share. They separated and she sued for palimony asserting they lived as a married couple and she won the case despite not having worked outside of the home.
The entire dynamic of a young, “stay-at-home boytoy” is very, very unbalanced, and therefore unhealthy. Don’t do it!
No different from a boy Friday slutty whore!