San Francisco’s Most Hated Gaylebrity Starts “It Gets Worse” Campaign

Starr, who The Sword wrote about last year when he lived on the street to save up money for surgery to remove the excess skin that resulted from him losing over 100 pounds, launched the website “It Gets Worse” yesterday, and if ever there were an exercise in self-aggrandizement masquerading as self-loathing, this is it.

His opening post:

This new campaign to say that after coming out and getting older, it gets better is a load of horse shit… Stay tuned as I and others show you why. If you have a story of gay bashing, violence, hatred, and especially gay on gay arguing or crimes or violence or pettiness or mean-spirited situations…please email me @ Nick Starr . com your story and I will post it.

Equating “pettiness and “mean-spirited situations” with crime and violence? Is it fair to compare someone being called a stupid bitch to someone being, say, murdered? I don’t want to get in a gay on gay argument with Nick Starr, but, probably not!

Another post on It Gets Worse recycles the negative comments left for Starr on the aforementioned Sword article, while yet another includes an email someone sent his boss in an attempt to get him fired. Dwelling on how much people hated you in the past and providing a forum for even more people to hate you now is, of course, productive. But is Nick Starr really that bad? There’s a difference between being truly awful and only being awful by virtue of the fact that you want people to think that you’re awful.

Doesn’t someone who says something like this deserve, if not guarantee himself, a “worse” life? And if you ignored him, would he still have anything to say?

 

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18 thoughts on “San Francisco’s Most Hated Gaylebrity Starts “It Gets Worse” Campaign”

  1. Don’t you people get it? He is only doing this for one thing, ATTENTION. The more you talk about him, negatively or HIV positvely (PUN INTENDED), we will get what he wants. Stop going to his blog, IGNORE HIM! It’s a joke. And it’s disgusting that a person would fake a suicide so many times, when there are actual sick people out there. And to compare himself to someone with actual problems is just fucking psychotic. He’s nothing but a self-indulged, immature little cry baby, and everyone, including me right now, is giving him EXACTLY what he wants. He wants people to talk about him, whether it is good or bad, because that makes him popular in his fragile little warped mind, so, the ONLY way to get rid of this little bitch is to IGNORE HIM FOR GOOD. Then, END OF STORY!

  2. Well, I am completely lost as to what you all are talking about. But I do know “it gets better” ONLY IF YOU MAKE IT BETTER! So I kind of agree. Anytime you are in a shitty situation, and cannot cope, find a support system that can help. Otherwise you turn jaded and bitter, and self destructive. So Yes, ‘It doesn’t get better” only if you don’t take an initiative to do something about your situation.

  3. Never heard of him. But whatever level he’s at or you THINK he’s at — what’s the point of using him for traffic here?

    I could never stand Perez Hilton and haven’t been to his site or read anything about him or by him for 3 years or more. Very easy and it works!

  4. Nick Starr twitpic’d a photo of who he voted for this past election day: Meg Whitman (!) I think Meg would sooner die than have the support of a HIV+ Homeless gay guy.

    NICK: You love to cry that you’re the victim here of some larger conspiracy, but what you’re neglecting to point out is that you weren’t fired from your last job because of any of those emails people sent your boss or for any lies that were posted on the internet about you. You were fired for stealing! You got yourself fired, no one else did. You probably send yourself most of the hate mail you post on your sad little site, because let’s face it:

    No one hates Nick Starr more than Nick Starr hates himself.

      1. Nick, honey, who knows how you scammed your way into getting unemployment (very UN-republican to take government handouts, isn’t it?), but “irrregardless” (as you like to say) you got fired because you got caught for renting Zipcars using the Steamworks corporate account so that you could sleep in them.

        Ironically, you tweeted all of this!

        1. I don’t know where you get your information, but anytime anyone at the company I formerly worked at used a ZipCar for personal uses, it was deducted from their paycheck. I paid for everytime I used a ZipCar for personal reasons no matter what they were. My place of employment never asked nor cared what I did outside of the work place. If an ZipCar expense didn’t have documentation for a work purpose it was simply taken out of your paycheck. They didn’t care how often or for what we used the service outside of work hours.

          Again I am sorry you listen to other’s who want to spread lies about me. I was laid off from my previous employer.

          1. You also realize that if you would have elected Meg Whitman the first thing she would have done would be cut your unemployment benefits as well as the thousands of dollars a month in free HIV (and acne!) medicine that taxpayers are paying for you?

            How do you reconcile being a conservative welfare queen? Do you think Meg Whitman would support the funding of places like SF CIty Clinic? Did you know Glenn Beck has advocated for the quarantining of HIV+ people?

            Why don’t you move to a red state and see how long you last? Not from being gay bashed but from not being able to survive without all the bleeding heart government handouts that are only possible in a LIBERAL city like SF.

  5. Nick Starr, I’d venture to guess that very few people actually hate you for being gay, ugly, fat, or HIV+. People hate you because you’re a shallow, narcissistic bigot. It’s plain as day that you don’t care about anything or anyone except for yourself, and your own self-promotion by any means necessary. GROW UP AND QUIT ACTING LIKE A F-CKING JACKASS. #justsayin

  6. Honestly if you are advocating suicide and bullying of other gays I’m going to take a moment to lay out a plan for you:

    Get beaten to death.
    -> I’d recommend letting them do so with giant black dildos, it would make the potential story of your death news worthy.
    Campaign Successful.

    Think of that positive!

  7. I’ve shared this wisdom with Allen on the balcony many times before during our history together – And I will now regale it for you all here and now.

    If you’re going to publicly turn your life into a rosebud the size of a pomegranate coming out of your self-pleasured bleeding ass – then at least have a good publicist at hand to walk you through the mess and sudden discharge, now known as your your life, which you ultimately leave behind for others to dissect and clean up.

  8. I’m so sick of these melodramatic queens thinking the world revolves around them. BITCHES, everybody, gay or straight, has their own set of fucking problems…sometimes they are exchangeable regardless of sexual orientation. So if you feel unappreciated, go hire a therapist. I swear some of you make being gay bleak because you’re always letting in the negativity. Stop letting what people say hurt you. Stop doing what you don’t want to do. Stop going to all the negative sites and change your homepage to google.com You could all avoid that shit if you wanted to. And if you live in Texas or Kentucky, bitch move to NYC or Gaywood. LOL It’s cliche, but life is too damn short to care.

  9. For some people, things DO get worse, and for some things DO get better. Whether you think the person stating the obvious is an asshole, it doesn’t make his message wrong. We all know people who are bitter and jaded from their experiences, yet we also know people who have become empowered because of their experiences. It is what it is. If things got worse for the starter of the blog (which, by your article, you imply it did), then what’s really the issue? What we as a community need to suggest to our youth are positive outlets for their anger, their emotions, etc. Once we have developed those, only then we can be self-actualized as a people.

    1. Um, he isn’t an asshole for stating ‘the obvious ‘ – disagree with that assumption, bu okay – he’s an asshole for being an asshole. He’s one of those people who goes into chatrooms on gay.com, says something that pisses everyone off, and then masturbates while everyone talks about him. What he doesn’t get is that we’re all just laughing at him because we’ve seen the game played one too many times.

  10. It Get Worse: only if you’re a fat, lying, bigoted, drunk who is starved for attention, feels sorry for himself and takes no responsibility for being a total douche. Then yeah it will get worse but, a non-psychotic person would probably already know that. Plus, his little website seems more like a pity party than anything else.

    Zach, why are you giving this fool more attention? Wouldn’t it be more productive to encourage it to go back to its original plan? Diving…

    1. Wow that is productive…and coincidently exactly the reason I started the sites… advocating suicide and the death of fellow gay people. Way to prove my point exactly correct Michael.

    2. Well that is productive… advocating another gay person kill themselves, proving exactly my point that it doesn’t get any better. You couldn’t have put it any better Michael. YOU are the reason for gay suicides. YOU are the reason that gay people don’t want to come out of the closet. YOU are the reason for gay bashing.

      Thanks for proving that it doesn’t ever get better #ItGetsWorse

    3. I have to agree. A generic word press blog thrown together in a fit of pique without even modifying it for viewer comfort or consideration is a lot like how people like Fred Phelps get their publicity and attention. Nipping a nutcase in the bud is one thing – but throwing traffic his way only to validate his nut-case spiral downward – is unnecessary and unfortunate.

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